So what type of closure from a narcissist can we truly expect to receive? They are not sad, lonely or despaired at the severing of your relationship and chances are, you were unexpectedly discarded. Remember your psychopath ex has already groomed their new victim, long before the two of you broke up. Once the relationship is over, NO CONTACT must be established. In order to pass the psychopath’s test, one has to maintain the course and not only avoid asking them for closure, but avoid communicating with them as much as possible. This is how they test your will and resolve.Īt this point you can expect another layer of manipulation and dark negotiations which will blind side you and set you back so far it will feel like you are starting over. If the narcissist feels that you are ready to move on they will make it a point to prove to you and to themselves that you still NEED them. The psychopath will test you and manipulate the situation to where instead of you wanting closure, you will want THEM back in your life.
Whatever type of closure or explanation you expect to get from them will be a word salad of confusing and trauma infusing lies that will only hurt you deeper.You will be mocked for asking such things from them and will look weak in their eyes.The psychopath narcissist will purposely rob you from closure as yet another form of torture and punishment for any type of narcissistic injuries they experienced while in relationship with you.If you truly want to get closure from a narcissist or psychopath ex there are a few things you will need to understand. Since there was actually love in that relationship, it’s not difficult to give each other the closure and blessings along their way.īut this is not something that’s achievable when dealing with a psychopath and they know this too well so they use that need against you. There are no loose ends or reasons to look back anymore.Īmong normal healthy human beings, even when a marriage or relationship is severed in bad terms, BOTH parties need that sense of closure in order to move on with their lives and they both tend to help each other achieve it. Well first of all, what exactly is closure?Ĭlosure is when both parties can honestly say they parted ways from each other and achieved some sort of finality from the relationship. It’s just not the type of closure you are used to or the one you feel you deserve. However despite the near impossible odds, there really is a way to get closure from a narcissist or psychopath. You have a better chance at spotting a shooting star, remembering to make a wish and that wish actually coming true. Getting closure from a psychopath is a feat not many can achieve for it is an unrealistic accomplishment considering the facts.
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